Perfect Partnership

It’s uncommon to invest in attaining the extraordinary. It’s so easy to look around to see what’s on offer and allow that to set the benchmark for diluted personal aspirations.

In striving for maximum growth, I like to stretch myself to envision the furthest reaches of possibility. Usually that’s an exercise of full hearted explorational feeling (more than a mental thinking exercise). A robust and lively heart is helpful in sustaining bold imaginings.

Getting out of suffering can be hard, but getting into the territory of the exceptional is usually much harder. Setting our sights high can be the first challenge. And then holding to them.

For those who yearn to reach the peaks of relationship potential, our soulmate is the one we seek. That person who is built with our same passion, purpose, desires, sense of humour and personality. This connection can offer the ultimate partnership. No contest.

But it’s pretty common to accept mediocrity in intimate relationships. Or less. The bar is pretty low when it comes to ecstatic, devotional love.

God has designed each unique soul to divide in half and incarnate into two bodies. This sets us up from the beginning with a healthy yearning to reunite with our other half - a bit like bonded twins separated at birth. Our soulmate pairing is a divine, predetermined connection. If we are heterosexual, we will long for the opposite gender, if not, we will long for our perfect same sex match. We only have one soulmate.

As we independently commit to who we truly are and grow in accordance with our unique soul qualities, there’s a magnetism that builds to pull our soulmate to us. If we want true love, we must be intimately true to ourselves.

Wounding from our parents and the environment when we’re young however, can create a tangled web of attraction that draws us into many misaligned relationships. We often get stuck in partnerships that match our emotional issues rather than our true extraordinary nature.

The most precious relationship potential awaits with the one person who shares our same soul design. And from that purest place of attraction, it never occurs to us to engage sexually with anyone else. Our heart is wide open to humanity but our sexual depth is reserved for the divinity of our perfect soul partner.